Here we have a saying 'Carpe diem' to 'pluck the day'. Yes you! No-one else can do this for you and the effort you put in is the result you will get back.
It’s time to start living for yourself and not others. As humans, we are born with a desire for love and acceptance. We want the people around us to like us. This is a basic psychological need. Since childhood, we’ve been getting the approval of our parents, our teachers and our friends. However, eventually, we need to learn to love ourselves for who we are. Loving yourself is crucial to living for you and only you. It is to learn how to live the life you want for yourself, regardless of the opinions of others. Your life is in your hands, do not give it to anyone else.